It was meant as a family religion and only as a family religion where it has some nice rituals to cater to that.
Traditional judaism completely absolutely sucks as an individual religion everyone who follows it secretly hates it and it was never ever ever ever meant to be a religion for a society where people wait years and more years to look into getting married.
Sticking traditional judaism on an unmarried individual is like sticking on an unmarried individual that half his weekend has to suck and that he can't eat anything that tastes good and that he can't talk to girls.
Traditional Judaism is stricter than nazi germany and islam combined. The nazis never said u can't talk to girls.