Ok I'm posting again.
Let us presume that God intended Judaism to be a Judaism that the majority of jews can follow with minimum difficulty. This would make sense because, any more difficulty beyond the minimum would be self flagellation and self flagellation is retarded.
Now, I read on another blog, kvetcher.net, that Rav Moshe Feinstein who from now on shall be known as, Rav Moshe FineControlFreak (you can read about him at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moshe_Feinstein) was a halachic decider who wrote a responsa that for guys talking with girls is a violation of a rabbinic prohibition and maybe even also a biblical one; and that this responsa "set the stage for a portion of the Orthodox worlds conduct." You can read the post here at http://kvetcher.net/2008/04/07/now-that-i-know-that-i-will-live-accordingly/.
Rav Feinstein, thanks for doing your share to make Judaism as intolerably strict of a lifestyle as possible. I spit on your grave.