i'm still quiet my religious beliefs today someone told my father in front of me that it's scary that I don't value being a jew. It's not that I don't value being a jew, it's that I don't want to pay money for religion I like to exercise so I need my protein I don't wanna pay my ass off for kosher meats and the whole idea of pay for synagogue strikes me as similar to the old catholic practice of selling indulginces.
Do I consider myself jewish? Yes. I can't change my genes. I do of course differ from the mainstream jewish community in believing in Jesus and the NT and I have zero interest in going to synagogue.
Ultimately though, God does not want to hear about people's adjetives. God wants good behavior.