The girls love their standards for men more than they love flesh and blood men.
There is a reason for that.
It is because of the costs of yeshiva tuition and kosher food.
If you are just a guy who can pay the bills it ain't good enough. If you don't have rich parents or aren't on direct track to being a millionaire, you can fugget about ending up with an orthodox jewish girl.
The orthodox girls want you to be rich so yeshiva for the kids can take all your money.